Over the last decade, there have been many times I was in need of comfort. Losing a job, a friend, loved ones, and financial difficulties are relatable to most.
Recently, I was lamenting a relationship lost. I had apologized, prayed, invited over and even sent a birthday gift. Crickets! I got nothing! Even though I had decided I would not have any expectations, I thought I would at the very least receive some acknowledgement. I was wrong! To put it mildly, it stung!
A few days later, a friend reached out to me. She was also having conflict in one relationship and needed some help. I was able to share with her that she was not alone! I too understood the problems that can arise with friends and family. Life is messy! She was able to share with me and we talked for a little while. I reassured her of God's word that says, “As much as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.” As much as we love someone, we cannot change them. We can love them by praying God's will towards them. Sometimes, comforting others is just sitting and listening. After we finished our call, I felt God had opened my eyes to His purpose. I was able to comfort another person going through something that I had already been through. This gave me a new perspective and left me feeling joyful that my experience could help someone else! God will use us if we are willing!! He turns our mourning to joy!
“who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any
affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” 2 Corinthians 1:4
Leigh Aten
Brownsville, TX
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